DRIVEN: A DAUGHTER’S ODYSSEY
Driven is an insider’s account of a pivotal time in women’s tennis history; an in-depth look at the complex character of my mother, Gladys Heldman; and the revealing story of my interior journey, both on and off the court.
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“This lyrical book is beautifully written with style, elegance and clarity by Julie Heldman. I found her story riveting, evocative and profoundly insightful. The book kept me up late at night; I could not put it down no matter how hard I tried. It is primarily the story of the relationship between Julie and her brilliant yet complicated mother Gladys. We read about their trials and tribulations, their triumphs and failures, and Julie’s painful and elusive lifelong quest to connect with a parent who was, ultimately, unavailable. The author is a woman of courage, candor and unmistakable sensitivity. I unequivocally urge you to read her book, which is for people of all ages and backgrounds.”
— Steve Flink, Member of the International Tennis Hall of Fame (ITHF) and author of The Greatest Tennis Matches of All Time
“Meet Julie Heldman, the tenacious survivor of a remarkable journey. This is the compelling story of a young girl’s quest to connect with her charismatic but complicated mother, Gladys, a windmill-tilting tennis zealot who founded the influential magazine, World Tennis, and led the charge to make women’s tennis a full-fledged professional sport. Yet at home, Gladys raged at Julie and humiliated her, leaving her feeling constantly under attack and powerless. Julie’s drive to succeed and to find her own path form the basis of this terrific book.”
— Joel Drucker, Tennis Channel and historian-at-large, ITHF
“Julie Heldman is truly a multi-talented individual. In addition to being a TV commentator, lawyer, business woman, and author, she was the fiercest competitor I ever played on the tour.”
— Nancy Richey, Former U.S. Number 1, grand slam winner, and member ITHF
“Driven is brilliantly written! I know few people who would bear their soul and their inner-most feelings with Julie’s candor, courage, and competence.”
— Alan Schwartz, Chairman Midtown Athletic Clubs, former USTA president
“Julie Heldman has written a fascinating book, Driven: A Daughter’s Odyssey, about growing up as the daughter of the extraordinary Gladys Heldman, founder of World Tennis magazine and a driving force in the foundation of the Virginia Slims Tour, precursor of today’s WTA Tour. Unfortunately for Julie, the Gladys who bore and raised her was not the same Gladys the tennis world knew and loved. Instead, Julie describes her as a highly narcissistic perfectionist with a cruel streak that she took out on Julie.
Instead of dealing with Julie’s tennis career in a kindly, supportive manner, Gladys undermined her. (Despite this, Julie was ultimately ranked number five in the world.) Julie never knew what to expect from her mother—abusive fury, unrealistically extravagant praise, or humiliating humor. Julie’s shaky underpinnings left her with a lifelong curse of extreme insecurity and a constant need to try to fill her inner emptiness with successes. Yes, Julie became a highly driven achiever, but at quite a cost.
Julie’s honest and beautifully written account of her life and emotional journey makes for a compelling read.”
— Allen Fox, Received his Ph.D. in psychology from UCLA while reaching the quarter-finals at Wimbledon and playing Davis Cup for the United States
“As a friend, doubles partner, and teammate of Julie Heldman, I thought I knew so much about her. But once I started reading some of the chapters of her book, I became amazed at how much I was learning about her, and how much of her inner turmoil she had previously kept hidden. As I consumed each new batch of chapters, I kept craving more.
Thank you, Julie, for sharing your remarkable journey. Your book touched me on so many levels.
Whether or not you’re a tennis player, you will surely be captivated by Julie’s path through life.”
— Peaches Bartkowicz, Winner of a record 17 U.S. national junior tennis titles, and former World and U.S. Top Tenner